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You do know that getting acquainted with people online is a lot easier than engaging them in face-to-face conversation at the bar; or even waiting for some guy to approach you. You can lie to your heart’s content, and unless the people you hook up with are psychic, they’ll probably have a difficult time in telling which of your half-truths are worth at least some merit. If this is the case, then why are dating sites flooded with profiles which are mundane, at best? In a desperate effort to please as many potential mates as possible, profiles usually include template details to achieve as many hits as possible; but alas, the reality is that people probably won’t even go through the first few mediocre sentences before moving on to the next hopeful.
If you want to lure male attention to your online dating profile, you need to be unique and creative. People tend to gravitate toward others women who exude a jovial air. As long as your profile passes of as funny, and it is written in an accosting manner as if you are really talking to that one special person, you are halfway through towards scoring that first date. It also helps to exude a sense of adventure, but not necessarily the outdoor type; hint that you are willing to try new things and experiences through what you write. Send this across in a subtle, assertive way, while also exuding a vibe that you are a person of passion and achievement, and you have the makings of a killer profile.
The basic requirement of a good online dating profile is detail. This distinguishes you as a person, and not another stereotype. Now, this doesn’t give you license to boast; you’ll come across as obnoxious and annoying. If you are into kayaking, don’t say so in a blunt way. Show the person how you enjoy this passion by saying that you have spent a lot of weekends camping out near the Grand Rapids with a bunch of girl friends. This tells the person that you are really into it, and are not just telling it for the sake of appearing an outdoorsy girl.
The most important factor in creating a catchy profile is to have a picture of yourself uploaded. Don’t put a picture taken a decade ago, just because you were thinner then. It’s best to be honest about how you look; with all your flaws intact. Go to a professional photographer and have them touch up on those blemishes on your face. Just make sure that you don’t look like a stranger to yourself when they’re doing “fixing” the picture.
Although lying may get you the first date, you may never get a second one if you have included, as well as excluded, some important facts about yourself. Be honest and be yourself; if the date doesn’t turn out well, there are always other fish in the ocean.