FindYourBetterHalf.com | Finding a Dating site to suit your needs is almost as difficult as finding a soul mate, we make it easy!
If you haven’t figured out by now that men and women think on opposite sides of the page, it’s time to crawl out from the rock you’ve been living in and get real with this stark fact. And if you think that you can keep her interest on you for as long as you can invite her on an occasional, swanky dinner date, you have another thing coming. Women don’t hoard points, they gradually rack it up; fill up her emotional tank with the following gestures.
The fortunate thing with women is that gifts for them don’t have to be fancy in order to be memorable. They value emotion over practicality, and those with sentimental value are often more preferred than one which may be exquisite yet mediocre. Give her a keepsake or a functional gift so that every time she picks it up or uses it, the imprint of your face on her memory is reaffirmed. It may be any everyday object like a pen or a home copy of a date movie, or a souvenir tee shirt from an event in which both of participated in. Make sure that you constantly shower her with such keepsakes, so that the memories of you build up in her mind. Aside from giving, lending things is also a good way of keeping tabs on each other. Having things which belong to each other on both your places provides the perfect opportunity for a drop-by, which can lead to a host of other pleasant experiences.
Of course being a gentleman always counts for something. Women love sensitivity, and if it done in a natural, even nonchalant way, the effect is that much more lasting. If you are on your first couple of dates with a woman, show her how you respect her femininity by showing some chivalry; even liberated women are turned-on to such gestures. At the end of the first date, walk her to her door front and kiss her on the cheek before making your exit; this is a positive sign that you want to tread the waters cautiously, and would like to know her better before rushing into it. You can take root in her brain even more with praise; be sure that it doesn’t border on flattery though, as she will see right through it. Hinting at the idea that you liked her better when she has hair down will let her equate you with the thought every time she visits a salon.
Most importantly, no matter how busy you are, you should always remember to give her a call or send her a message. Women love being remembered; and the best way to affirm her presence in your life is to tell her you were just thinking about her.