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Six Tips for Online Courtship
You can count yourself lucky for being able to experience the advantages which online dating brings. Instead of your body language being scrutinized on an actual, your writing prowess is put to the test, although doing it online, through e-mail, doesn’t make a lot of difference; your intention is to initiate conditions which still lead to face-to-face contact, and leaving a positive and lasting impression is still a must.
Since e-mails free women’s inhibitions to a certain extent, you may be surprised to find out that there are women who initiate the conditions for a spark. Otherwise you’ll have to assert yourself in a positive way to achieve it. E-mail sparks are just that; they are brief while leaving an impression. Find something in the woman’s profile which you can relate to, and build a short initiating comment around the common interest.
An e-mail can also be ambiguous in itself (unless your composition is lengthy); don’t add to the complexity by committing online offenses which may seem harmless to you, but is actually an obtrusive way to correspond. Messages composed in capital letters choke the message space, abrupt responses don’t do the other person justice, and ‘collect mails’ which expects you to pay for receiving the message are downright offensive.
You have to learn how to accept no for an answer. As women are normally flooded with courting e-mails, they’ll sort out the ones which do not appeal to them, and there is a chance that your message belongs to the unlucky ones. If she sends you a ‘thanks, but no thanks’ reply, or if she doesn’t send you a heads-up, don’t pester her into sending one your way; accept the setback, and move on to other potentials.
While being honest about yourself can be a noble trait, don’t include a litany of all your achievements and insecurities in your correspondence. Women like mystery, so that they’ll have expectations to work or deal with. Bleeding yourself out in the open may turn the woman off, instead of soliciting her curiosity.
Don’t prolong the correspondence; its effect dies out inevitably, as most long-distance relationships can prove. Once you have both determined that there is something to the connection which merits an actual face-off, schedule a meeting immediately; this keeps the momentum building.
The post-date e-mail is a sort of an anticlimax. If you liked the first meeting, you have to send a quick message hinting you’ll very much appreciate the next one. If the date was a letdown, at least have the courtesy to tell the woman that the date was great, but the two of you just were too much on opposite ends of the stick to be compatible.
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